Sometimes, life is best lived progressively. When there are problems, obstacles, hardships, etc. then it's best to find ways of dealing with it as quickly as possible and move on.
Go up! Don't stay down in a slump all say, go build yourself up. Everything is temporary, including the good and the bad, so why dwell on one more than the other? It's not worth it.
Living life progressively doesn't mean taking things for granted, but don't make a big deal over the little things, don't stress a situation if it doesn't mean that much in the longrun anyway.
If you keep putting an idea somewhere it doesn't belong, then eventually it'll find a way to fit in there. Let's set goals and expectations and meet them, whether they be short term, long term or permenant changes.
Don't waste time. Make time.
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9.3.10
4.3.10
To Tell or Not
So I've decided that I'm going to start giving scenarios, try to look at both sides of it and look at possible solutions.
If anybody reads this, input is welcomed and highly recommended.
So let's say you have a best friend and let's call him Paul. Paul is your best friend, so naturally you have mutual friends. Some of your mutual friends talk shit about Paul to you.
You defend Paul, since he is your best friend, right?
Do you tell Paul? Why or why not?
My point of view is this: I defend Paul because if he was that bad of a person, then those people wouldn't still associate with him, not even a little bit. He should have the opportunity to confront them. If they said what they said, they should be able to own up to it and let Paul defend himself.
I tell Paul, not to be messy, but because he should be more aware of the company he keeps. I know Paul has a history of bad or weird friendships.
On the flipside, I may not defend Paul since I don't know his relationships with the other friends that well, I just know that they know each other and may talk from time to time. There may have been past events that occured and that's why they act the way they act.
I don't tell Paul because the conversation(s) had with the mutual friends are our business and should not get back to him to protect privacy. =\
Right?
I would love some feedback.
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If anybody reads this, input is welcomed and highly recommended.
So let's say you have a best friend and let's call him Paul. Paul is your best friend, so naturally you have mutual friends. Some of your mutual friends talk shit about Paul to you.
You defend Paul, since he is your best friend, right?
Do you tell Paul? Why or why not?
My point of view is this: I defend Paul because if he was that bad of a person, then those people wouldn't still associate with him, not even a little bit. He should have the opportunity to confront them. If they said what they said, they should be able to own up to it and let Paul defend himself.
I tell Paul, not to be messy, but because he should be more aware of the company he keeps. I know Paul has a history of bad or weird friendships.
On the flipside, I may not defend Paul since I don't know his relationships with the other friends that well, I just know that they know each other and may talk from time to time. There may have been past events that occured and that's why they act the way they act.
I don't tell Paul because the conversation(s) had with the mutual friends are our business and should not get back to him to protect privacy. =\
Right?
I would love some feedback.
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1.3.10
Funny...
Creative juices flow, but it gets hard when you want to do ao much. I can't seem to focus because I want to do so much.
When I write, I never know which direction I want to go in. Things aren't bad, but I may take them there. I feel like life is an existential crisis and sometimes my writing reflects that.
What if it became an existential celebration?? How do you get back to enjoying the unknown or atleast the adventure in it?
Life is funny, even when it's sad.
So many scenarios to give for this, but again, I don't know which direction I want to go in.
*giggles*
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When I write, I never know which direction I want to go in. Things aren't bad, but I may take them there. I feel like life is an existential crisis and sometimes my writing reflects that.
What if it became an existential celebration?? How do you get back to enjoying the unknown or atleast the adventure in it?
Life is funny, even when it's sad.
So many scenarios to give for this, but again, I don't know which direction I want to go in.
*giggles*
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